I'm intrigued. What did he think VOX meant?
I'm not sure. He simply didn't want to accept that it meant "voice activated", mainly because I had said it did. Admitting that they were VOX-activated removed the "incoherence" that he thought kept it from working. And admitting that it actually worked after all had to be avoided at all costs.
This was a good example of an argument in which I learned quite a bit while researching a rebuttal. I had not understood the finer details of the Apollo voice comm system, mainly because I'd never really studied them. I had wondered, for example, how they avoided interference between the S-band/VHF relays in the LM and on the rover when nobody was in the LM to make the changeover during an EVA.
Turns out that VOX is the key (!) The VHF return-link transmitters in the PLSS have to remain on to send telemetry and biomed data; only the audio paths from the microphones to the transmitters are VOX-keyed, to keep the world from having to continually listen to their breathing and the noise of the suit fans.
But the VHF forward-link transmitters on the LM and on the rover, those that carry Houston's voice to the astronauts, have their carriers VOX-keyed. Houston transmits to the LM and rover on the same S-band frequency but on separate FM voice subcarriers, allowing them to direct uplink voice to the LM, the rover or both. Since the VHF relay transmitter in the LM or rover emits RF only when audio is actually present on its own uplink subcarrier, the two transmitters won't simultaneously transmit and interfere with each other at the PLSS receivers unless the ground were to send uplink voice on both subcarriers. Mystery solved.