I have had some success in at least getting the hoax folks to shut up by humoring them slightly, but trying to show where THEIR favorite theory fails. My argument goes something like this:
Your "push off of air" fantasy isn't credible to ANYONE with scientific experience. Let us examine HOW that would work at the molecular level, shall we? Combustion forces the exhaust out of the nozzle - you agree with that. You say that said combustion does not impart force to the rocket (fundamentally false, but I'll indulge you for this one time), so that means the exhaust molecules have to bounce off the air molecules, return to the rocket, bounce off of it, and thereby produce lift. Do you realize how inefficient that would be? How many exhaust molecules are going to hit air molecules (which are normally randomly moving, or moving in the general direction of local air currents) at PRECISELY the right angle to be reflected back in a manner to strike the rocket? Very, very few, if you know ANY math/geometry whatsoever. If that was how rockets worked (it isn't) their efficiency would be greatly improved by giving them a bell-shaped bottom so more molecules could reflect off it and thereby achieve more thrust. However, the opposite is true in reality, because your visualizations were not thought through to realize such a fundamental failure. Maybe you need to add some air fairies to your hypothesis to produce the needed lift?
Now, I may have missed something in my interpretation, but I have never gotten any counter explanation.