They also fail to account for the fact that film development is not a 'this process and ONLY this process' situation, and the process can be tweaked to change the outcome somewhat. I don't know how, because I have never done it nor taken the time to understand the process in depth, but I do know people who are experts, and I know from a little reading that it is possible to change the various steps to produce different results.
Yes, the developer makes a difference, and so does the process used.
Process a black and white film in D-76 and you will get different results from processing in Ilford LC-29. Then there is Ilfotec DD-X, Ilfotec RT, Ilfosol 3, ID-11, Perceptol, Microphen also from Ilford, and HC-110, XTOL from Kodak. Although D-76 has been around a long time, there were probably also developers used in the 1960s that are no longer around; IIRC, DK-50 was one of them. All of these developers will yield different results, then on top of that, is HOW the films are developed. Developing in a machine, a tank or as single sheets in a tray or bath will yield different results. Then there are developer strengths (ratio of concentrate to water), developing time and developer temparatore, all of which can be tweeked in the darkroom. If you don't know the chemical and methodology that were used to develop the Apollo films, then anything you do with different films, in a different camera with different developing methods will be will be meaningless.
Aulis also used C-41 colour film using C-41 process. Well, C-41 wasn't released by Kodak until Late 1972, so all the missions up to Apollo 17 must have used C-22 for their colour negative film, a considerably different process. If you process C-22 in a standard C41 bath, you will ruin it unless you take some very special precautions.
ETA: I just found this of only film developers. All these will yield different results in different circumstances
https://www.digitaltruth.com/data.php?doc=filmdevsabc