G'day apollo_deception, and welcome to the Apollohoax forum.
how, if we landed on the moon 40 some odd yrs ago, can we not build a rocket to land and take off again?
Depending on who you mean by
we, we can. The DC-X is one which comes to mind:
If you mean the Lunar Module specifically, well, there was no more need for it once the Apollo program had finished.
This technology is highly specialised, and if there's no future need for it, it goes out of use. If long enough time passes, then the people who designed it die, and their personal knowledge dies with them.
technology doesnt go in reverse. we have laptops and ipads today because technology improves as time goes by. with nasa however, they managed to go in reverse...how can that be?
Actually technology does go in reverse on occasions. Concorde is a prime example.
To expand on what Allan F said, the US government gave NASA a shedload of money and a specific task - land a man on the Moon and safely return him to the Earth, and do it by the end of the 1960s. NASA and its contractors developed a heap of technology to achieve that task, and they achieved it.
What happened then?
Did Nixon and the Congress say, "Well done, here's some more money, now go and do the same thing with Mars"?
No. They said, "Well done, you've achieved the task you were set. Now here's a massive budget cut because we need the money and it won't cost us many votes."
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:NASA-budget-federal.jpg shows how the budget has shrunk over the years: around 1% of the US budget from President Ford to President Bush I, and declining to about 0.5% of the budget during the Clinton and Bush II presidencies.
Very simply, if you don't have the money, you can't maintain all the technology you previously developed.