...I also read that the heat shield on the command module was designed to melt away during reentry this seems odd since today heat shields are not designed to melt but just the opposite...
Dakdak, have you considered the faster Earth entry speeds of the manned lunar missions, compared with earth orbital missions of Apollo and the Space Shuttles, and thought about whether the faster speeds might require a different heat shield? You might find that the Shuttle and it's protective tiles would have burnt up if it re-entered at the slowest Apollo lunar mission's speed, that of Apollo 17.
I don't have entry speeds of the Shuttles and leave it to you to find them, but the following link in the
Apollo By the Numbers series gives figures for the Apollo missions:
http://history.nasa.gov/SP-4029/Apollo_18-40_Entry_Splashdown_and_Recovery.htmand I show the mph conversion for the slowest and fastest figures.
Earth Orbit Mission -- Earth entry velocity
Apollo 7 -- 25,846.4 ft/sec -- 17,622 mph
Apollo 9 -- 25,894 ft/sec
Lunar Mission -- Earth entry velocity
Apollo 8 -- 36,221.1 ft/sec
Apollo 10 -- 36,314 ft/sec -- 24,759 mph -- over 7,000 mph faster than Apollo 7
Apollo 11 -- 36,194.4 ft/sec
Apollo 12 -- 36,116.618 ft/sec
Apollo 13 -- 36,210.6 ft/sec
Apollo 14 -- 36,170.2 ft/sec
Apollo 15 -- 36,096.4 ft/sec
Apollo 16 -- 36,196.1 ft/sec
Apollo 17 -- 36,090.3 ft/sec