I guess you could ask this person why the fuel tanks on unmanned spacecraft don't explode in a vacuum. Do they think some special technology prevents fuel tanks from exploding that can't be used on a manned spacecraft?
The SM cryogenic oxygen tanks each massed more than 200 lbs
empty. As part of my in-depth research on Apollo 13, I discovered a description of how they were made. Obviously they're not your garden variety propane tanks.
Heck, I've got a stick of ordinary Schedule 40 PVC pipe that I use for dusting the crown molding, and it's rated to 600 psi for temperatures below 73 F. Not that I would use it in space, but if you didn't care about design margins or leakage or thermal embrittlement or any of the other reasons we choose different materials, you could use it as the fuel line for the lunar module APS.