Okay, I've looked at the pictures again. What "unsettling conclusions" should I come to?
Absent any numbers that show how far away the crater actually was, what the tilt angle would have been had the LM put a foot down in it, etc., you're just guessing. I mean, based on the angle of view, I'd guess that the crater was a good 5 to 8 meters away from the footpads. Close, yeah, but not right next to. Also based on that angle of view, I'd guess that the floor of the crater wasn't significantly lower than the ground the other footpads were on (and certainly not several feet deep).
But again, that's all guessing. Which is all you are doing. And, sorry, I'm not gonna trust your gut on this.
The LM was designed to land on uneven terrain, up to a certain tolerance. Test articles were built and drop-tested to characterize what it could handle. Crews trained for months in simulators to handle off-nominal landing situations. Nobody expected to land on a tabletop surface. The LM was designed to tolerate some tilt (up to 12 degrees, I think), the legs were designed to absorb some impact on touchdown, etc. If you can provide numbers that show this particular crater really was outside the tolerance the LM was designed for, then we'll talk. Otherwise, you're just arguing from incredulity, which is ... not convincing.